You can't just think, hey, as soon as this blows over, I'll be happy. As soon as they stop doing that, we'll be perfect together. As soon as I get this job, move, understand math, go out, next week, next month, next year, I'll be happy. You can't just wait for the clouds to go away for life to continue. Ever heard of dancing in the rain? Its cold and wet and exhilarating.
I hate when people say that as soon as "this" is different, everything will be magically different and they'll be content. Thats false. As soon as "this" changes, there's going to be something else that you wish you could skip or fix. Truth is, the bad stuff? The boring stuff? Thats what makes you truly appreciate the good stuff. It prepares you for the things you really want. Some things, to put it simply and bluntly, really suck. Others are the things people dream about. But its all life and it can all be amazing if you make it that way. Try to change YOUR point of veiw, or how YOU do things, and see how much better everything suddenly gets.
I'm not saying you're always going to be blissfully happy. I'm just saying its all life, and the sad parts are just that, parts. Blips on the radar.
Love from hanhan <3
hey, you need to work on those 's, maybe it's time for a new keyboard.
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